So, you’re a dude. There’s a girl you want to make the first move on, but are hopelessly clueless because for one, girls are complicated and so is technology. San Francisco Weekly’s How to Make The First Move 2.0 chart demonstrates clearly what technology and methods of communication to avoid when it comes to making the first move.

Hopefully if you don’t get anything out of this chart, you’ll heed it’s statement saying to avoid being Facebook friends with anyone you want to date. And that calling a girl up, is the best way to go. Take it from me, I’m a girl.

How do you make the first move?